Have you ever watched a movie or TV show and felt like something was missing? Not in the plot, but in the people on screen. I've been thinking a lot about how media shapes the way we see ourselves and others. The more I pay attention, the more I realise that representation isn't just about who appears on screen. It's about who gets to be at the centre of the story and who is left out completely.
When we consume media daily, whether it’s films, news, social media, or ads I can’t help but ask myself a simple but powerful question: whose stories are being told, and whose voices are being left unheard?
More Than Just “Diversity”
Representation means more than having different faces on screen. It’s about how those characters are portrayed. Are they complex, relatable people? Or are they stuck in tired stereotypes like the nerdy Asian kid, the angry Black woman, or the sassy gay best friend?
When entire communities are shown only in certain ways, it doesn’t just reflect old biases. It shapes how society continues to view them. And it affects how people from those communities begin to view themselves.
When You Don’t See Yourself
Growing up, I often felt disconnected from the characters I saw in movies or on TV. If someone who looked like me was in the story, they were often in the background or given a minor role. That might seem small, but it sends a message: your story isn’t important enough to be told.
For many people, this kind of invisibility can be discouraging. When the stories we see never include people like us, it becomes harder to believe that our dreams and experiences matter.
Yes, Things Are Changing
We are seeing more diversity in storytelling today. Movies like Encanto, Moonlight, Minari, and Black Panther have made space for more cultures, voices, and lived experiences to be shared. Social media has also helped people from all backgrounds tell their own stories without needing anyone’s permission.
But progress is still slow. Most of the people who make decisions in media come from similar backgrounds. Until there’s more diversity behind the scenes, many stories will continue to go untold.
What Can We Do About It?
I’ve learned that each of us can play a part in making change happen. Here are a few things I try to keep in mind, and maybe they’ll help you too:
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Watch with intention. Choose to support content that represents people in real, meaningful ways.
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Speak up. Challenge stereotypes when you see them, whether online or in everyday conversations.
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Tell your story. Whether it’s through writing, video, or art, your voice matters. Share it.
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Ask questions. While watching or reading something, ask yourself who’s missing, who’s stereotyped, and who’s in control of the story.
Final Thoughts
Stories matter. They help us understand each other and feel seen. When the same voices are always centred and others are ignored, it creates a distorted view of the world. We all lose something when that happens.
So the next time you’re watching a show or reading the news, take a moment and ask yourself: whose story is this, and who’s still waiting to be heard?
Thanks for stopping by. If you’ve ever felt unseen in the media you love, I’d love to hear your thoughts or your story.

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