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Why Are So Many Smart People Broke?

You ever look at someone who’s crazy smart , maybe even genius-level thinking, but are constantly stressed about money? Yeah, same. It’s one of those weird contradictions you see all the time: people who are good with books, ideas, or problem-solving, but can’t seem to catch a break financially. Meanwhile, others with no fancy qualifications are out here thriving, buying houses, starting businesses, and living large. So what’s going on? Being Smart Doesn’t Always Mean Financially Smart First, let’s clear one thing up: intelligence and financial literacy are two totally different things. You can be a whiz at science or philosophy and still not know how credit scores, taxes, investing, or budgeting work. Schools teach us how to write essays and solve equations, but not how to manage money in the real world. So unless you grew up around people who talked about money (and how to make it work for you), chances are you had to figure it out the hard way. The Education Trap Here’s ano...

Who Decided 9 to 5 Is the Right Way to Work?

Let’s be real for a second. Waking up early, rushing through breakfast (if you even eat), sitting in traffic, working 8 hours straight (plus unpaid overtime for some), and repeating that five days a week... who said this is the best way to live? Seriously. Who decided 9 to 5 was the "normal" way to work? Because it kind of feels like we all just inherited this schedule without asking too many questions. Like some unspoken rule handed down from people who thought burnout was a badge of honour. A Bit of Backstory The 9 to 5 system didn’t just fall out of the sky. Back in the industrial era, people were working wild hours in factories; like 12 to 16 hours a day. In the early 1900s, labour movements fought hard for shorter, more humane workdays. The 8-hour workday was actually seen as progress. It gave people more time to rest and be with their families. So yes, it made sense then . But fast forward to now, we’re in a digital age, not on assembly lines. So why are we stil...

How Migration Affects Family Relationships (It’s Not Just About Distance)

Migration impacts more than just where people live. It changes family roles, emotional bonds, and everyday life. Here's how it really affects relationships. Let’s Talk About Migration and Family Life When people move to another country for work, study, or a better life, they often do it with one goal in mind: to support their loved ones. But while migration brings hope and opportunity, it also brings distance and not just the kind you measure in miles. So, how does migration affect family relationships? That’s a big question, but one that hits home for millions of families around the world. Let’s break it down in a real, honest way. Being Far Away Is Hard One of the biggest things people don’t always talk about is just how emotionally tough migration can be. Sure, there’s excitement and progress, but when a parent, spouse, or child is far away, there’s a real ache that doesn’t go away with a phone call. Even with video chats and WhatsApp messages, you can’t hug through a scre...

Cancel Culture: Modern Justice or Online Bullying?

  In today’s digital age, cancel culture seems to stir up more heated debate than most. Some hail it as a way for society to hold public figures and institutions accountable while others see it as a dangerous form of online bullying; an unforgiving, mob-driven take-down with real-life consequences. But what exactly is cancel culture, and is it helping or hurting our world? Let’s explore both sides of the coin. Cancel Culture as Modern Justice One of the strongest arguments for cancel culture is that it gives power to the powerless. For generations, marginalised voices were silenced by systems that protected the rich, the famous, and the powerful. Today, social media has changed that. When someone speaks out about racism, sexism, abuse, or corruption, their voice can echo around the globe within hours. The public can demand change and more importantly, demand accountability. Consider cases where traditional institutions failed to act until social pressure forced them to. In these mo...

Is Gen Z Losing Norms or Just Evolving Them?

You’ve probably heard it before: “Gen Z is too sensitive,” “They don’t follow rules,” or the classic “They’re ruining everything.” But are they really losing values, or are they just letting go of traditions that no longer make sense? Let’s talk about it. They Question Everything, and That’s Actually Smart Gen Z doesn’t accept things just because “that’s how it’s always been.” They question everything from gender roles and work culture to education and faith. They ask why a lot. Why do we need to sit at a desk from nine to five? Why can’t men talk about mental health? Why is therapy still treated like a secret? To older generations, that can look like rebellion. But Gen Z isn’t trying to be difficult. They just want to understand and reshape things that feel outdated. Tradition vs. Truth Not every tradition is bad. Some bring identity, connection, and meaning. But Gen Z can tell when something is real and when it’s just for show. They’re not turning away from faith, family, ...

Alone in the Crowd: Social Isolation in Mega Cities

  It’s strange how you can be surrounded by thousands, even millions of people, and still feel completely alone. That’s the paradox of life in a mega city. Skyscrapers, traffic, endless streams of faces and yet, many people quietly suffer from deep social isolation. Cities like Tokyo, New York, London, and Mumbai are known for their energy, opportunity, and diversity. But beneath all the movement and noise, many residents feel invisible. And the bigger the city gets, the easier it is to disappear. The Myth of Connection On the surface, cities are full of potential for social connection. Public transport, co-working spaces, parks, cafes, and festivals are meant to bring people together. But many urban environments are built around speed and productivity, not community. We rush from one appointment to another, headphones in, eyes on our phones. We live in small apartments with neighbours we rarely speak to. It becomes normal to share physical space with people, without ever forming...

Representation in Media: Whose Stories Get Told? Who gets to be the hero?

Representation in Media: Whose Stories Get Told? Have you ever watched a movie or TV show and felt like something was missing? Not in the plot, but in the people on screen. I've been thinking a lot about how media shapes the way we see ourselves and others. The more I pay attention, the more I realise that representation isn't just about who appears on screen. It's about who gets to be at the centre of the story and who is left out completely. When we consume media daily, whether it’s films, news, social media, or ads  I can’t help but ask myself a simple but powerful question: whose stories are being told, and whose voices are being left unheard? More Than Just “Diversity” Representation means more than having different faces on screen. It’s about how those characters are portrayed. Are they complex, relatable people? Or are they stuck in tired stereotypes like the nerdy Asian kid, the angry Black woman, or the sassy gay best friend? When entire communities are shown only ...