Not too long ago, getting married in your early twenties was considered normal and even expected. If you reached 30 without a spouse, people worried. Today, the script has flipped. Many young people are unmarried well into their late twenties and thirties, and some are not in a rush at all. This shift has sparked endless debate. Is delaying marriage a sign of fear of commitment, moral decline, or changing values? Or is it simply a practical response to modern social and economic realities? From a sociological perspective, young people delaying marriage is not a mystery. It is a reflection of how society itself has changed. Marriage Then vs. Marriage Now Historically, marriage was less about personal fulfillment and more about survival. It provided economic security, social legitimacy, and clearly defined roles. People married young because it was necessary. Today, marriage carries much higher expectations. It is expected to offer emotional support, companionship, shared values, finan...
Sometimes life feels like it’s on pause. You send out applications, chase goals, try to stay positive, but nothing seems to move. Everyone else looks like they’re getting ahead while you’re stuck in the same place, wondering if your turn will ever come. It’s tough. But feeling stuck doesn’t mean you’ve failed. It just means you’re in the quiet part of your story — the one that builds strength, patience, and clarity. Here are a few gentle reminders to help you stay motivated when things feel slow. 1. Redefine What “Progress” Means Progress isn’t always visible. Sometimes it looks like learning a new skill, healing from burnout, or simply waking up and trying again. Even when doors aren’t opening yet, the effort you’re putting in now is preparing you for the moment they do. Small steps count. Rest counts. Believing again counts. 2. Focus on What You Can Control When opportunities are limited, it’s easy to feel powerless. But there’s always something within your reach — improving y...