Have you ever told a story to a guy, expecting an emotional reaction, only to get a “Hmm… that’s rough” in response? Or maybe you’ve shared something with a woman, and she immediately started asking ten follow-up questions about how you felt? If so, congratulations—you’ve witnessed firsthand how men and women often listen in very different ways. But why does this happen? Is it just personality differences, or is there something deeper at play? Let’s dive into the fascinating world of how men and women listen. Men: The Fixers For many men, listening is a mission. The goal? Find the problem and solve it. When a guy hears someone venting about a tough day, his brain starts scanning for solutions: ✅ “Did you try talking to your boss?” ✅ “Maybe you should switch gyms.” ✅ “Here’s what I would do…” This isn’t because men don’t care—it’s actually the opposite. They think the best way to help is to fix whatever’s wrong. The issue? Sometimes, the person talking doesn’t want a solution; ...
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